You're stuck. Something is missing. You can't put your finger on it. 

Together, we will find the right thread and pull it. All the way to the end. We might find other threads, and we'll pull those too, until you understand what's keeping you gridlocked and how to shift it.

This is deep, practical work. 

Exactly the conversation you need to know what needs to shift, and what step you need to  nbtake next.